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The Victorian era marked, in a very real sense, the dawn of "tourism." Prior to that period, travel for any distance was difficult and uncomfortable, and often expensive. The average person did not travel for fun or entertainment; one undertook a journey only if it was absolutely necessary. But the 19th century brought a host of improvements to travel, the most significant being the railroad. For the first time, people of relatively modest means could traverse great distances relatively quickly and in comfort. The railroad turned entire towns, like Blackpool, into holiday and tourist destinations. But even with improved transportation, a "visit" to, say, a friend in the country generally involved a stay of at least a week or more, which gives rise to the articles below on the etiquette of being a host or a guest.
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- Good Breeding As Shown in Giving Hospitality, by S.F.A. Caulfeild
(Girl's Own Paper, 1884)
- A detailed guide on how to be a considerate host(ess) -- with a reminder that as one's guests are also constrained by etiquette not to complain about anything, one must be even more watchful to ensure that they have nothing to complain about!
- Good Breeding as Shown in Receiving Hospitality, by S.F.A. Caulfeild
(Girl's Own Paper, 1884)
- Besides basic common-sense advice on how to be a good guest, this article also touches on such issues as whether to offer fees (tips) to the servants!
- Good Breeding: Shown When Traveling, by S.F.A. Caulfeild (Girl's Own Paper, 1884)
- "Some fifty years ago travelling was a rare luxury... and those young people of the present day whose parents can afford to perfect their education, by means so healthful and agreeable, should make the utmost of such advantages... As well-bred young women they must refrain from allowing themselves any more license, either in dress or in conduct, merely because amongst strangers."
- Behavior at Summer Resorts and Watering-Places, by Florence Howe Hall
(Demorest, 1888)
- Visitors (Girl's Own Paper, 1891)
- In Victorian times a "visit" often meant a stay of several days or even weeks - and this article is a guide to the etiquette of effective hosting.
- Guest and the Guest-Chamber, and Etiquette Between Guests, by Sophia F.A. Caulfeild (Girl's Own Paper, 1895)
- In Victorian days, houseguests often expected to stay awhile; here are some tips on making the visit comfortable for everyone.
- Girls as Visitors, by Lily Watson (Girl's Own Paper, 1900)
- The Prophet's Chamber [The Guestroom], by Isabella Fyvie Mayo (Girl's Own Paper, 1901)
- On the best way to arrange a guest-room.
- • See also General Travel Tips
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